When you meet that hot girl/guy do you have a hard time knowing if they are into you or not? Are they playing hard to get? Do they think I’m a dork?
Well I’m here with 7 ways that will help you figure out if that person thinks your hot stuff or super lame, and the best part it is these are subtle clues that will let you find out in minutes, not days.
Smile For Me Baby
Someone smiling at you is always a good sign. The problem here is that everyone can fake a smile. So you need to be able to distinguish between a real smile and a genuine one. A fake smile will often look like more like a grimace, it will seem as though the person is putting all their effort into turning the edges of their lips upwards.
When someone gives you a real smile it’s almost hard to miss. The biggest difference between a fake smile and a real one is that the real one is almost always accompanied by eye contact. Another big difference that is easy to spot is the person smiling will generally show at least a little bit of teeth with a real smile while a fake one will usually have all the teeth covered.
Use your best judgment here. As long as you are honest with yourself, you will know the difference between a genuine happy smile and someone who is just faking it.
Magnetic Attraction
Ok it’s not actually magnetic, but if you see this happening it will look as though the other person is magnetically attracted to you. People that like you tend to get closer to you than a person that doesn’t like you. When sitting down they will often lean towards you. If you are standing then they will normally try and stand close to you if they like you.
If the person doesn’t like you then the opposite is true of all this. They will normally lean away from you or stand further away from you. Now don’t be naive and think that because you are in a crowded club and the person is right at your side that means they like you. No that just means it’s crowded and there is no where else to go or they don’t want to get separated from you. Again use your common sense here and don’t lie to yourself.
Where Are Your Feet Going?
This one is a pretty easy one to spot. People that like you will unconsciously point there feet towards you.
On the contrary if the person has their feet pointing towards the door then they are probably just counting the minutes until they can get away from you.
Look At My Eyes
People that like you tend to look you in the eye for longer periods of time then someone that does not like you. If they are really attracted to you then their eyes might wander down to your lips as well.
I Want To Touch You
Well this seems obvious right? If that person is trying to hold your hand, hug you often, or trying to kiss you then the obviously like you right? Well yeah but that’s not what I’m talking about here.
When you are first trying to determine if someone likes you the touching might not be as obvious as holding your hand. Something as subtle as a pat on the knee or gently grabbing your forearm can easily be interpreted as an attraction to you. When we like someone this is something we do without even thinking about it. Things people do subconsciously are often the best indicators that someone likes you.
Take A Look In The Mirror
Another thing to pay attention for is when someone mirrors your actions. Often if you are sitting at a table and reach down to get a drink they will see you doing this and do the same thing. This is another great sign that someone likes you, but it could also just mean that they are intimidated by you too.
Now the important thing to remember when trying to interrupt these clues is that just because they are doing one of these things does not guarantee that they like you. You have to be able to look at the whole picture and see all of the clues. If they are doing 2, 3, or more of these cluse then the chances of this person liking you are pretty good.
Even if the person is doing all 7 of these things even that doesn’t guarantee that they like you. Some people are just really good at faking it, but hey if they are doing all 7 the odds are in your favor. Get out there and take a chance. It’s time to make your move.